Some of you are NOT going to like this… but HONESTLY… a Married TF? Is that even a thing that’s supposed to happen? Can someone please explain to me how any of this is divine? How is it spiritual to break up a home? To sneak around? To lie? I just don’t get it. I really don’t. I met my TF and he was married. Okay, I know how that sounds. But it was over. They hadn’t been intimate in two years. They were basically roommates. He moved out soon after we connected. I told myself it was okay. I told myself it was meant to be. This was a soul connection, right? It had to be different. It wasn't just some affair. I believed that. I really did.
And then what happened? When things got hard for us, when I needed him most, he ran straight back to an old girlfriend. A karmic. Just left me shattered. The pain is unreal. It’s a pain I wouldn’t wish on anyone. And you know what? I probably deserved it. That’s the truth. I played a part in breaking a marriage. I caused pain. And now I’m living in that same pain. It’s karma. It’s real. It’s a universal law that doesn’t care about your feelings or your spiritual labels. You cause hurt, you get hurt. It’s that simple. It ALWAYS comes back.
So I’m begging you, if you’re even thinking about this, just STOP. Look at what you’re doing. Think about the other person. The wife. The husband. The family. It’s not a game. It’s not a romantic movie. This is real life with real consequences that will destroy you. I see these posts online making it sound so magical and destined. It’s NOT. It’s messy and it’s painful and someone always gets broken. Please, learn from my mistake. Don’t romanticize this. Don’t make excuses. The pain you cause will find its way back to you. I promise you that. It ALWAYS does.
