Help! Why Won’t My Cancer Ex Stop Stalking Me After I Dumped Him?

NipheLibraTopaz

Are cancer men stalkers? I've left him repeatedly, but he creates extreme scenarios to reconnect. He insists I stay in his life forever but denies all the harm he's caused. I've blocked 41 numbers.

InikaPeaceReilly27

My ex is a cancer sun and I’m just gonna say yes. It’s been 5 years and I’m still bothered by him, tbh. Idk why but I am. Nvm, I guess we could compare other placements lol

Joyze

It's so tough having a Cancer moon like this! But he's an Aquarius sun, you know? So he's really aloof and detached. And yet he won't leave me alone! Every time I block him, he still comes back.

wsteinapplecore

Honestly, this seems more like something to do with your mental health than your zodiac sign. Please, look after yourself and stay safe.

Quantumwave

You know, I have to say no not all of us are that way! I’m a Cancer sun and moon with Scorpio rising, and honestly, if someone tells me to leave them alone? I’m out, just like that never to be heard from again. But here's the funny thing: every woman I've ever dated, my ex wife included, still comes around. Most of them actually beg me to come back or give them just one more time! A few have even become close friends, which is pretty nice. Right now, I’m single and not looking at all I really don’t need the kind of crazy that comes with relationships these days! And you know what? Alone time is totally my love language! 😊

PyromancerX

Yeah, my Cancer guy totally shifted from saying he never wanted to see me again to calling me his best friend. He’s a Cancer sun, Gemini moon, Virgo rising. Honestly, he can be pretty annoying sometimes, but he cooks for me and, even though we’re both seeing other people, he still makes time just to hang out. So it’s not all bad a lot of people I know really struggle with feeling abandoned, you know?

JorvikLuxe

Yes, they are! Same thing happened to me with a Cancer rising. But don't get fooled and don't suppose you have them! 😊

PandoraGadGirl

Yeah...water sign guys, honestly, in my experience 😣 I actually had to get a restraining order against a Pisces sun once. For example...

Lunavynx

I was married to 2 of them. They were both awful.

StellarFlow

Even after all this time, my heart still catches when I think of it my ex, watching from a distance, five whole years gone by. And here I am, whispering to the wind, hoping he’ll hear: just turn your gaze toward your own family now, toward your wife and those two little ones. Oh, the quiet freedom in letting go… it almost makes me smile through a sigh.

Velurnauxi

I'm going through a tough situation with my ex, who is a Virgo and was abusive. He doesn't seem to take me seriously. I mentioned that I might need to take legal action by mid October.

NativeFinn19

That's just so, so scary... honestly, you gotta do whatever it takes to get away and set those boundaries. Tell him straight up to leave you alone, period. And maybe even a police report if you have to?

My own worst stalker mess... it was with this guy, a Cancer sun, Aries moon, Scorpio rising... we actually met in an astrology group, years ago. I blocked him everywhere, but he still said he'd wait the rest of his life no matter what, and just... so many other crazy tries. Total horror movie stuff in real life. He still emails this super old email of mine? Even though I've had him blocked on everything for over four years now... (I'm kinda trying to collect evidence).

They just... go so far. So please, please be careful? Take your own safety seriously, because some people... their feelings or whatever's going on in their head just blinds them. They forget all about basic decency.

VibroMysticEcho

Honestly? I have a ton of Cancers in my family and they're such homebodies no way they’re out there stalking anyone! In my experience, it’s always the Scorpio guys and the earth signs who get obsessive. They’re the ones who fixate and watch and just can’t let go. That’s what I’ve seen, every single time.