I started doing yoga a while back and at first it was really good for me, going twice a week made me feel like I was taking better care of myself, my body felt more open and less tense. Then I decided to add another session, thinking more would be even better, but that’s when I got sick, a real heavy fatigue that lasted for days. My initial thought was that it must be my body adjusting, releasing stored energy or something, that this discomfort was just part of the process of getting healthier. After sitting with it for a while though, I started to see it differently. That sickness felt like a wall, a deep old belief that I don’t get to feel that good, that my well-being has a ceiling I’m not supposed to go past. It probably connects to things I learned a long time ago, ways of being that got set in place when I was young. It made me realize that feeling unwell shouldn’t be the expected result of doing something genuinely good for yourself. I kept thinking about how someone I know has talked about this very idea, and I found myself agreeing completely—discomfort isn’t a natural byproduct of self-care. It’s worth looking at where we might be holding ourselves back, what silent rules we’ve accepted about how much peace or health we’re allowed to have.