Has anyone with Venus opposite Pluto found love despite the challenges?

moonlighters

Has anyone with a tough Venus placement ever found a happy ending? I've got Venus opposite Pluto myself, and it's been really rough.

goldenvortexexplorer

I’m following because my chart has Venus in the 12th house, forming hard aspects to Saturn, Neptune, and Pluto. Honestly, my love life just hasn’t happened it’s been nothing but hurt and lies so far.

EchoFlux

Oh, my placement is exactly the same, and it's in a pretty tight orb! I've been cheated on in almost every relationship... and after 17 years of marriage, we divorced. It's been tough, you know? But now, I'm in a very healthy, loving relationship it just took me almost until 40 to finally find it!

LuminStar

I have a combust Virgo Venus, you know? So, this is something I’ve really thought about.

You really have to put yourself first and start writing your own story. I mean, if you just leave it all up to fate and wait around for someone to sweep you off your feet… well, in my experience, fate tends to let you down. It just does.

And boundaries. That’s the big thing. Boundaries, boundaries, boundaries.

It was only after I actually took those steps for myself that I found happiness. I found a kind of romantic security I was looking for.

seawolfventurer

Moon square Venus is a blessing. It is not a bad aspect. This keeps me out of trouble.

StellarDusk88

My Venus is currently retrograde. This suggests a time not for lasting romance, but for a series of brief encounters.

RavenIgniteAltair

Oof, Venus Taurus opposite Pluto Scorpio? 😬 That can be so tough. Love feels super painful and traumatic sometimes, like major unrequited vibes, control, manipulation... This placement can totally attract narcissistic or abusive people. 😔💔

spinnovarubicon

Oh wow, Venus is the main planet in my huge t squares... with Saturn, Pluto, Mars, and Uranus all involved. And it’s intercepted in the 8th house, so… yeah. Tons of issues here!!

Lumineske

Venus square Pluto and Saturn. It hasn’t been a happy ending...yet. I’ve faced a lot of pain, betrayal, abandonment, and heartbreak from those karmic connections, but I’m doing my best to hold onto hope. After all, I’ve learned what red flags to watch for now. I’ve finally taken those lessons to heart, so I like to think my soul mate is out t here somewhere and that we’ll find each other when the time is right.

Skywardstar

Looking at my chart, Venus in Leo squares Pluto, and with Scorpio rising, Pluto is right there with my ascendant. That means Venus is also squaring my ascendant. My relationships have been really tough. There's been abuse, and I've often been cheated on or used, lied to. Money doesn't flow easily either. I tend to lose what I have, usually because of my romantic partnerships. And they're always so intense.