I've been thinking about my natal chart, and it's kind of wild how much depends on the house system you use! If my chart i s in default mode, it places Neptune in the 10th house, which is conjunct Uranus and my sun. But if I switch to whole signs mode, it becomes Venus in the 9th house, conjunct Jupiter and Pluto. Both interpretations could fit what people see in me, yet I often get the sense that people see themselves reflected in me more than they see who I actually am. It's almost like a mirror thing! In the end, I think the default mode lines up better with my experience, because Neptune represents the most elevated planet in that configuration, and it feels the truest to how I navigate the world.