Within an old book I wrote at length of the following, but here I will attempt to be brief.
When about two months old I was having dreams of a soul that had been given permission to follow me here. The soul had a very specific 'tone'.
When five years old, while riding a bike I saw a little girl sitting on a cement porch, and I thought to myself that I would marry her.
At 16 I felt a warm soul walk past me at a bowling alley, but I did not get to see who it was.
At 19 I was packed and ready to permanently leave town within two days, but as I was about to ask a short girl if she might like to go with me, I saw a different girl's reflection in the rear-view mirror. The reflection did not last but a couple seconds. The next night, same thing, I was about to ask the short girl if she would be interested in leaving town, but before I could ask, again the different girl's face appeared. Each night for two weeks the different girl's reflection appeared, lasting longer each time.
After the two weeks, a car with two girls pulled up next to me. The girls got out, and immediately I was in awe of the taller girl's aura. We were engaged within two weeks, but we had to wait two months to get married (giving time for visitors to arrive).
Yes, the girl in the mirror was my wife, as was the little girl on the porch, and, my wife's soul tone is the same that I had dreamed about. There were other features of the dream that were also proven valid.
My wife and I have never had an argument nor so much as said an unkind word to the other. Without my wife's presence, I could not have learned what I wanted to learn in this life. I owe her a debt than I can never repay.
I myself am still unsure of what 'twin flames' implies, whether it might imply souls traveling together, or actual 'split souls', or something else. I have seen many different vague descriptions, but none of them agreed with any other description.
Within my view, 'split souls' would imply something different than 'twin flames' and 'twin souls'.
Therefore, at present I simply regard my wife and I as being souls who sometimes share lives together, for the purpose of helping and caring for the other.